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Tuesday 14 October, 2008
 11:09 | 2/Jan/2008 |  2 Comment(s)
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Old memories, New questions


    I was just chatting with my classmate n now collegue about an incidet about two and a half years back..

    Back then, we were in the last semester of my Enggereing degree, and my best friend, "B" had just eloped with her boy friend. I knew that B was in love with a guy. In reality it was more of like a bad crush on both the sides, they knew each other for just a month, and B was already talking of eloping. I clearly remember the day when we had a chat about this. How much I had tried to make her see sense, make her see the reality. The guy was clearly using her, and she had time to turn back. After about an hour of talking,she promised that she try her best not to act foolishly and we both left..  Apparently,we both reached the same movie theater. Me with my friends, and she with her bf on his bike, smiling and waving at me...  That left me dumb struck, after all that I just told her,
nothing, not even a tiny bit went into her head.. It was the starting of our relation breaking. Lost all respect and care that she had in my mind. B did what she wanted, eloped on the day of our final submission of our final sem, almost ruining her carrer.. Present status, she is my ex-best friend, and her bf, her ex-husband after a month.. I pitied her..

    Come to the present..my parents are denying me to marry MD, and I still love MD. There is a small difference, MD is not like B"s bf, we have been together for a long time, and I know he is a true and genuiene guy. Arguing to this one can say that things didnt work out between B and her bf cause they acted immaturely.. This can go on and on in my mind, arguments and counter arguments..

     Why this matters is, I really dislike B"s way of dealing with things.. So now am I turning into her?? A positive response scares me...

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